Good morning! My name is
Rebecca Whitehead for those of you who don’t know me and last week I was at
work when I got a call from an unknown number. I have a rule if I don’t know
who it is I wont answer. I mean if it’s important enough they will leave a
message right? Well a few seconds later my phone buzzed and I had a voicemail. It
took me a second to realize what was happening but it was the bishop and you
can guess what he asked me. My first thought was “wait I think next week is the
only Sunday this month I actually work during the day!” I ran into my office to
check the calendar and to my surprise today is actually the first and only
Sunday I don’t work at all. So lucky me! My second thought when he asked me to
speak on a talk that was giving in the women’s general conference session was “yeah…
I definitely didn’t watch that…” So I’m obviously super stoked to talk to you today.
Just kidding I am honored to speak and
this was honestly the perfect topic for me.
I was asked to talk on The
Master Healer by Carole M. Stephens given this last October conference. As I
was reading this talk I realized how much of it paralleled to my own personal
life and how I see this everyday. Stephen’s talk is all about the Doctrine of
Christ and the plan of happiness. Another talk this conference, given by Brian
K. Ashton, focused on the same idea. He stated “The scriptures define the
doctrine of Christ as exercising faith in Jesus Christ and His Atonement, repenting,
being baptized, receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost, and enduring to the end.”
Stephens believes that we as
members need to have a bedrock understanding of this doctrine for Christ is our
base, “The rock of our redeemer, … a sure foundation… whereon if we build we
cannot fall.” Too often in this day and age we look for acceptance and help
from anyone but Christ. We try to make ourselves look good on social media and
try and solve our problems by either ignoring them or choosing other outlets.
We tend to turn to the great and spacious building when we could turn to the
one who can provide everlasting help. And as we come to understand the great plan of
happiness we recognize that the Savior is at the very heart of the plan. We cannot be happy without Christ and with him
we are able to meet any challenge that’s brought upon us. Sister Stephens
brought up three examples on how the doctrine of Christ brings us closer to our
father in heaven especially through adversity.
She first touched on Christ
ability to give us permanent relief from the sorrow of our own sins. No matter
what your sin is God will always forgive you. CS Lewis once said “Look for
Christ and you will find him and with him, everything else.” This includes
forgiveness and happiness. I can only hope each and every one of you have a
firm and personal knowledge that this is true, for it is the foundation of the
church. It is important to remember to use Atonement throughout our lives. We
don’t need a great sin to repent. We can do it every day in our hearts for the
little mistakes we may make. Using the Atonement brings you closer to Christ
for he is the one who is carrying your burdens along side you. He has already suffered and bled for you so
why would you not take something that is already yours. Remember to focus your
thoughts on Christ and there you will find happiness.
The second example was that
Christ is with us to comfort us when we experience pain from the sins of
others. I think this is a topic not touched on as much as it should be. As we
go throughout life, go to school, get married, and start families we will not
only have our own trials but we will have to watch the ones we love and care
about go through hardships and heart ache and we must tearfully watch as some
follow unrighteous paths. Sometimes we feel the burden and shame for others
actions but don’t know what to do about it. We want to personally fix it, to
make things better. Richard G. Scott counseled that we must feel compassion for
our straying loved ones but you should not take upon ourselves a feeling of
responsibility. He said “when you have
done what is reasonable to help one you love, lay the burden at the feet of the
Savior… As you so act, not only will you find peace but demonstrate your faith
in the power of the Savior to lift the burden of sin from a loved one through
his repentance and obedience.”
Most of you probably don’t
know this but I currently work as a Psych Tech at a women’s rehab for alcohol
and drug addiction. I watch girls come in every day beaten and broken, almost
near death. I hear their stories of pain and trauma and my heart just aches for
them. Sometimes it’s hard to hear how they got to where they are and it’s hard
to not want to take their burdens upon myself. I love each and every one of
those women even if they have lived unrighteous lives. They deserve so much
more and I wish I could take away their suffering and addiction; I want nothing
more than for them to be healthy and happy. However the first step in the 12-step
program is realizing that they have no control over their lives and that it’s
time to turn their lives over to God. These girls all know that they need their
Savior and I have come to know that God does forgive of all sins. He forgets
your past and lets you start anew. I watch these girls come in broken and alone
and I watch them leave happy and full of God’s love. I have learned that their
burdens our not mine to bare they are Christ’s. He bares their sins and walks
right along side them on the road to recovery. Yes it’s hard, and some days I
come home and cry for these girls but I know that in the end if they turn to
God and trust him and if I turn to him as well and trust him that everything
will work out the way it’s suppose to. Elder Scott followed up in his talk by
saying “complete healing will come through your faith in Jesus Christ and His
power and capacity, through His Atonement, to heal the scars of that which is
unjust and undeserved.”
The third and what I feel is
one of the most important example given by Sister Stephens is “the Mast Healer
can comfort and sustain us as we experience painful realities of mortality such
as disaster, mental illness, disease, chronic pain, and death.” I struggle on a
day-to-day basis with my own mental illness. It’s not easy, it never has been, some
days I don’t leave the house, others even my bed. Sometimes I feel I am
unworthy of Christ’s sacrifice and that I don’t deserve his atonement. It’s
been a hard long road but have learned that it is not just my burden to bare,
that Christ is already baring it with me whether I feel like I deserve it or
not. Over the past few years I have learned to turn it over to the Lord and in
time I have come to grow and accept my illness, and I have learned to even love
it. At work at night we have a group called therapeutic community. In it each
of the girls shares their high and low for the day and what they are grateful
for. The other day it came to my turn to share. Although my high and low were
irrelevant I got to express to the girls how grateful I am for my mental
illness and for all of my trials and hardships. I got to tell them that without
these tribulations I wouldn’t be able to understand these girls and I wouldn’t
be able to help. I told them I was grateful for my higher power. I expressed
Christ’s love for me and for each one of them. And I assured them if Christ was
with me through my journeys and I was with them through this hard part of their
lives, that God and Christ were right there with them to. All they had to do
was open their hearts and ask for forgiveness. These girls have honestly been
to hell and back but I get the opportunity, the privilege, to watch the Savior
open his arms and welcome them back. I
get to watch the atonement mend hearts and save lives.
And that is the doctrine of
Christ. I know for a fact that the Savior has already taken the burden from the
backs of those girls. He has already atoned for each and every sin committed by
mankind. He has already atoned for your sins and my sins. The Savior pleads:
Will ye not now return unto me, and repent of your sins, and be converted, that
I may heal you? If ye will come unto me ye shall have eternal life. Behold,
mine arm of mercy is extended towards you, and whosoever will come… I will
receive.
I am so beyond grateful for
my father in heaven and his beloved son and the chances they give me to better
myself. Christ is the center of happiness and I can confirm that. Without
Christ I am lost. He is there for me always and I’m always with him. He really
is the Master Healer and his arm is open to each of you. So live the Doctrine
of Christ, seek the plan of happiness, repent of your sins, and come unto
Christ.
In the name of Jesus Christ
Amen.